Assertive: Assessing a situation and making clear choices about the appropriate way to behave, Expressing true feelings thoughts and beliefs, Being in control of what you say and do., Standing up for your rights, choices, and feelings in a way that doesn't threaten others or violate their rights. t , You speak up and are more likely to get what you want or to know where you stand., You keep your self-respect, I win, you win, Passive: Not standing up for yourself, Avoiding conflict or confrontation, Giving up responsibility for yourself- not making decisions for yourself, Compromising at your own expense , Not expressing honest and true feelings or thoughts, Not speaking up - you just go with the flow or with what someone else wants, I lose, you win, Aggressive: Aiming to win regardless of the other person, Standing up for your rights in such a way that the rights of others are violated, Putting others down to make yourself seem better than they are, Seeking revenge when you perceive others to be better than you, Using putdowns, humiliating, belittling, or overpowering others in order to win, You get what you want, but with no regard for others and how they might feel intimidated or hurt, I win, you lose, Passive Aggressive: Using silent treatment to punish people, Giving back handed compliments, Using sarcasm while appearing pleasant , Muttering under your breath, Smiling when you are clearly upset, Using denial as a defense mechanism  , I lose, you lose ,

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