mental load, the cognitive effort of organising and planning tasks, power dynamic/power imbalance, an unequal distribution of control or authority in a relationship, one-sided advantage, benefits that only favour one person, chores pile up/snowball, tasks accumulate quickly and become overwhelming, emotional labour, the unseen emotional effort required to maintain a relationship or manage household, entitlement issues, the belief that one inherently deserves special treatment or service, resentment creeps in, feeling of anger or bitterness slowly begins to develop, pent-up tension, accumulated stress or anxiety that hasn’t been expressed, fan the flames, to make an existing argument or conflict worse, bottled up emotions come flooding out, strongly suppressed feelings suddenly bursting out, blow off steam, to release energy, anger, stress through action or speaking out

Weaponized incompetence

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